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Trust Issues with Self & Others
Trust Issues with Someone You Love But Don't Really Know
Trust Issues with Someone You've Been With For Years


Trust issues come up when one loses faith in one's own ability to make decisions, take care of one's self and survive abandonment and hurt.

Sometimes trust issues manefest in relationships that were entered into too quickly and too intensely -- without sufficient preliminary relationship development. In these cases "trust issues" often manefest in paranoia about what the other person is doing when out of sight or even what they may be thinking when in sight. It may seem that anxiety comes up without cause but the cause is often the unconscious realization that there is not enough information about commitment or love to establish a real sense of trust.
Trust that you'll crust
faster than rust.
Trust you won't bust
if your feelings get mussed.

Trust that it's better
to love and to learn
than to boil in emotions
or otherwise burn.

Trust that it's funner
to smile and to live;
to love and to learn--
not forget, but forgive.


-- Anonymous
In these cases the issues contributing to the anxieties categorized as "trust issues" are 1) not trusting one's self to live independently long enough to really develop a strong relationship with someone; 2) not trusting one's self to survive the relationship possibly ending.

In some instances "trust issues" manefest as a growing expectation that the relationship is going to fall apart -- with no reason to believe this except for past experiences with relationships falling apart -- which again has underlying issues related to one's ability to enjoy life for what it gives while it gives it with faith that in the long run things will work out one way or the other. In some instances "trust issues" manefest as a growing expectation that the relationship is going to fall apart -- with clear, reasonable reasons to believe this (clear, compelling evidence of relationship demise) that one does not want to accept because he or she believes it will be impossible to survive breakup.

In all these cases, the basic issues that need addressing are self-esteem, trust in one's ability to survive what life hands out, an understanding of the basic trial-and-error realities of life, an acceptance that life is not EVER completely predictable, completely safe or completely controllable or even substantially understandable. The basic fix to anxieties about trusting others is a reasonable set of learning experiences and a faith in one's own ability to handle life, handle loneliness and handle reversals and unhappiness when they happen.

The tapes/CDs below can help in these areas. Hypnosis is a very effective, empowering tool to calm fears and anxieties that are held in the unconscious areas of the mind and are therefor unaffected by normal conscious self talk. Hypnosis "does its thing" by communicating with the unconscious parts of the mind where the most basic attitudes, anxieties and fears reside. Head-Cleaners hypnosis recordings use indirect, permissive cognitive-behavioral, down-to-earth, logical, strategic observations and suggestions to accomplish a realistic aleviation of anxieties and fears that are not to the listener's best advantage.
TRUST PEOPLE TO BE WHO THEY HAVE SHOWN THEMSELVES TO BE.
DON'T TRUST PEOPLE TO BE SOMEONE YOU IMAGINE OR ONLY HOPE THEY ARE.

IF YOU HAVE, SO FAR, SURVIVED EVERYTHING LIFE HAS THROWN AT YOU, MAYBE YOU CAN TRUST YOURSELF TO BE PRETTY RESILIENT EVEN WHEN TAKING RISKS.

Don't use hypnosis to make yourself dumb -- DO NOT use the tapes/CDs below to force yourself to trust someone you know to be untrustworthy or otherwise override what you know to be realistic distrustfulness based on reliable information or experience.
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allowing one's self
to get past it

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Hypnotic word weavings, metaphors and suggestions intended to assist the listener to "get past" feelings of guilt, depression, anxiety and other lingering psychological side-effects of a significant hurt, wound, shock, trauma, mishap, loss or upset. Intended to reduce or eliminate intrusive unwanted, unhelpful, unpleasant memories, thoughts or feelings of anxiousness, distress, hurt, loss, guilt or regret that linger on without protective, health- or happiness-promoting value. (Not intended to relieve feelings of anxiousness or unwanted thoughts that actually may be providing a protective, realistic warning.)
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healing tree 2
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Hypnosis for an increased sense of resiliency and faith in yourself and in life as you face tough struggles and challenges. Focuses on feeling okay about going through hard times and on reminding you that you have always endured, no matter what has happened so far in life. Helps with adjustment to loss and/or change, the stress of life, worry, anger, depression, anxiety and nervousness about impending potential problems.
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how to soothe out angst

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Hypnosis for soothing out angst (a persistent, gloomy, anxious feeling). For establishing a sense of hope, resiliency and a sense of faith in one's self and one's life. Helps foster a sense that you can handle things even if they are tough.
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performance perfected
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Hypnosis for handling stressful situations with a stress-less readiness and ability to act. Designed 1) to foster the listener’s ability to maintain a relaxed and comfortable state of fine-tuned readiness for action and reaction, 2) to foster the listener’s ability to react to threat or danger with optimized, “in-the-zone” physical and psychological coordination, sensory sharpness, facilitated memory and instinctual reactivity, and 3) to minimize self-critical or anxious internal dialogue during action or performance of duties. For all forms of performance and performance anxiety but with special subtle focus on elements helpful to individuals in danger occupations and individuals struggling with sexual performance anxiety. Also for a reduction of stress-related after effects of intense situations.
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letting love
go to dizzying heights

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Hypnosis for lovers/partners in a loving/partnering relationship to end anxiousness, facilitate trust and foster connectedness. Hypnotic suggestion, metaphor and imagery designed to foster the listeners’ ability to set aside the unfounded fears and unhelpful sensitivities (e.g., anxieties related to hurts in past relationships). Also designed to foster a deepening, solidifying and intensifying of the listener’s sense of relationship and emotional connectedness with his or her lover and partner. Designed to be listened to alone or simultaneously by both partners. Designed and intended ONLY for use by responsible adults who are in a long-term love and partnering relationship and who believe it is in their best interests to foster their sense of trust and connectedness with their lover and partner.
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relax... relax
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Hypnosis for relaxation and the development of relaxation skills that foster physical and emotional comfort and rejuvenation without reducing awareness and alertness. For those who have difficulty relaxing -- especially those who have a history of reacting with anxiousness to attempts to relax. Especially helpful for survivors of trauma experiences and/or soldiers facing combat experiences and their aftermath. Fosters optimal rejuvenative relaxation and alert relaxation skills.
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self to self partnering
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Hypnosis for the "self-esteem-ally" challenged
-- individuals faced with tough personal challenges and/or individuals who struggle with lack of faith in themselves, self-directed anger, etc. Focuses on establishing practical attitudes and perspectives for dealing with one's self with respect to failures, successes, etc., in order to maximize and optimize productivity. For establishing and fostering a generally better relationship with one's self.

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two voices to imagine
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Hypnosis for assistance with developing control over bad habits, reactions or feelings that seem to cause troubles. For kids and adults, this recording focuses on imagining a control room where the listener can turn up or down the intensity of urges, reactions, tendencies or habits that he or she may be struggling with.
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performance 2
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Hypnosis for anxiousness and anxiety, intrusive & bothersome thoughts, self-consciousness, performance anxiety, worry, stress, depression. More for fostering an ability to handle a specific sort of performance or experience without having to struggle with self-doubts and self-critical, anxious thoughts. Less helpful for longterm changes, this focuses on allowing you to be more automatic and permissive of handling certain things like lovemaking (and sports performance, public speaking, etc.).
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TAKE   NOTE:    In self-helping it's important to tell helpful from hurt.   It's important to give yourself permission to consult a professional if you need one.   Just as its important to get to a doctor if you're severely injured, and in borderline cases of injury it's better to waste the time it takes to go see a doctor than risk that you should have -- and just as one should not goof around with bandaids when an artery is gushing -- it's important to consult a psychologist, psychiatrist or other counselor or physician -type professional if you believe you might, in fact, need one.   Better safe and not sorry -- a stitch in time saves nine.   If it turns out its a false alarm, the professional will tell you.   If you think you need to go with a significant other and your 'other says "no," then go by yourself.   Take a look at the comments on finding a therapist for some tips.   Again, better safe than sorry -- a stitch in time saves nine.

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